In New York City, roommates are not just for college dorm rooms! It's common here to see friends and acquaintances co-habitating to beat the sometimes high cost of New York apartments. But sharing a Manhattan apartment is an art, so before you and a partner start your apartment search in NY, you may want to establish some ground rules.
Map Out Your Private Space
It's important that each roommate have their own personal space, especially when sharing a studio. Establish boundaries from the start, clearly distinguishing which areas (as well as personal items) are to be shared, and which are exclusively private. Nobody likes to feel that their personal space is being invaded.
Establish a Schedule for Chores
Letting the dishes and the dust bunnies pile up in your New York apartment may be alright for you, but it might not be acceptable to your roommates. Have a discussion before you move establishing just how often your apartment will be cleaned and a schedule for taking turns straightening up the different common areas, including the kitchen, bathroom and living area. Delegating chores may not be fun now, but it can save headaches and help mitigate problems later.
Don’t sweep your issues under the rug!
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New York apartment sharers have disputes with their roommates on occasion, but nobody should have to walk around your own apartment seething in anger. Discussing potential issues with your roommates as they happen can help save a relationship from turning sour. Your roommate may not intentionally be doing these things to annoy you, and you may be surprised at how often problems can be smoothed over with a little understanding.
Spend Time Together
One thing I like to do is have dinner with my roommates once a week. Even if you're not best friends, it's a great way to catch up on what is going on with everyone.
Hopefully these tips will help all those first time roommates looking for their no-fee New York apartment!
ByDayva Segal
